Dating not interested
In general, I do not let guys get very close at all.While I have several groups of friends, it's pretty hard for me to let anyone get TOO close, even women.Thus, there’s no dating without heartbreak, any more than there’s swimming without getting wet.So for the first question, you have three things you can do more effectively.If you never try to love, then you lose from the beginning. Before you stop trying and live solo, examine why you aren’t interested and see if it is what you want or if there is something else driving your desire.9 reasons you might say you are not interested in dating If you are someone not interested in dating, I totally get it.For now, let’s examine why men have the tendency to stop giving like they used to.Men are built to compete, conquer and control, with the exception of the sensitive man who is more passive in his approach.
There are many things that people must endure here on earth. But, it is the worst thing in the world when it isn’t. One moment a critical part of you is right there at your side, the next moment it isn’t.(Sensitive men are more comfortable being chased around than doing the hunting.) As for the majority of men in their masculine energy (notice this is a case of energy, not gender, since men and women both have masculine and feminine aspects within themselves), they see most everything as a challenge.Life becomes one giant competition where getting to the next level is not only desired, it is imperative.At the same time, changing my profile status to “seeing someone” every time I go on a second date seems like overkill. And you totally came to the right guy to answer them.My second question is about saying no/rejecting people. I know what I am supposed to do – spit it out, be direct – but I really, really wish there was a less uncomfortable way to do it (men have it easy, all they have to do is not call). Really, I hate to toot my own horn about my embarrassingly vast online dating experience, but, well, TOOT TOOT! You want to act with integrity and be nice, but not hurt anybody’s feelings. Most people, men and women, have no interest in hurting anyone passively or actively.